In this era, when traveling becomes affordable to most and the world becoming a small global village, it is important to educate ourselves on certain customs whenever we navigate. Of course, we do not want to offend our hosts and labeled discourteous because we are ignorant of their unique customs. Knowing these can even be a bridge for a long-lasting friendship.
Don’t Tinkle and Guzzle During a Drinking Spree in Hungary
While tinkling glasses and guzzling beer or wine is common in most countries, not so in Hungary. This has something to do with their war with Austria in 1849. History has it that thirteen of Hungary’s mighty military leaders were brutally killed because of this old custom.
Use Your Chopstick Well in Japan
Anyone who has been to Japan understands their politeness as a nation. That extends to their table etiquettes, especially on the use of chopsticks. Do not use the pointed end to get food from a shared plate as it is considered uncouth and unhygienic. Use the blunt end instead.
Don’t Expect Appreciation for These Simple Gifts When in China
The uniqueness of Chinese beliefs and traditions can be puzzling in so many ways than one. Don’t you dare give gifts such as clocks, straw, sandals, flowers and handkerchiefs as these are all pertaining to death and funerals. Otherwise, you’ll strain your relationship to them.
Be Aware When Giving Flowers in Russia
Russians are serious about the connotation of yellow flowers. Beware, as it means treachery to them and well, it also signifies that the relationship is over. Red Carnations, likewise, is not to be presented to a friend because these are offered on the graves or given to living war veterans.
Sharp-edge Gifts are a Big No in Netherlands
While women, especially, mothers in some parts of the world would revel on a fancy kitchen knives or scissors as presents, in the Netherlands, these are not welcomed. To them, sharp, pointed objects as gifts are a sign of bad luck.
Do not do Business Over a Meal in Bolivia
It is considered impolite to talk about business or business deals during a dinner or lunch in Bolivia or even on social occasions. To them, sharing a meal is supposed to deepen interpersonal relationships. As such, Bolivians would rather talk about family over other topics.
It’s OK to be Late in Venezuela
Truly unusual but showing up on time over meal’s invitation in this South American country can be misconstrued as being too eager, let alone, greedy. It is always better to show up 10 to 15 minutes later than the agreed time.
